• 5 Things To Embrace In Order To Be Happy

  • Dana Gatto

    Are you ready to live happily ever after? Are you ready to just be happy and be yourself? I think it’s time.

    5 Things To Embrace If You Want To Be Happy

    Your Own Path.

    You have your own unique path that you have been carving out your entire life. It is a culmination of what you want to do, what you want to see, what calls you, what is interesting to you, and all of those things have a UNIQUE way of making their way to you. You can not, nor do you want to, follow anyone else’s path. How YOU live your life is your business. How you get there is your business. Where it leads is unique to you and also your business. It is time to embrace that you have your own unique dreams and therefore your own unique path. Own that. Focus on that. Don’t worry about what anyone else is doing or what they’re saying. You do YOU and experience the happy that is on your own path.

    Your Own Likes and Dislikes.

    Embrace who you are. Own your likes and also simply be aware of your dislikes. You are your own unique person. You have lots and lots of things, qualities, places, emotions, conversations, causes, and values that you like. Own these and make them dominate your life. You also have dislikes, let those gravitate out of your life. You do NOT have to tolerate or sacrifice, you simply have to decide that you want YOUR life to be about your likes and let go of focusing on dislikes. It really is that simple.

    That It Is OK To Be A Happy Person.

    It is natural for you to be happy. It is natural for you to feel good. It actually takes more work to be miserable because it is not your natural state. You have a choice in every single moment to accept that happiness is your natural state and allow it, or to join the masses of people who spend most of their lives complaining, blaming, tolerating, yelling, arguing, criticizing, controlling, demanding, and crying. It is your choice. But if you want to be happy, you first have to decide that is is ok.

    Your Freedom To Choose.

    You are so free that you can choose to be miserable, you can choose to focus on what feels bad, you can choose to be around people who feel good or people who feel bad, you can choose to make the best or the worst out of uncontrollable circumstances, you can choose be the creator of your own life or give that power to someone else, you can choose to take action or sit on the side lines, you can choose a new life direction or stay the same. Being happy means knowing you have the ultimate freedom, the freedom of THOUGHT. The ultimate freedom is knowing that YOU are in charge of your own mind, and ultimately your happiness.

    That Life Is Supposed To Be FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    That’s right. Life is supposed to be fun. Life is supposed to be really good for you. If you’re spending time believing that fun should be reserved for weekends only, the occasional vacation, retirement, or some holiday or special occasion, you’re really missing out. Life is supposed to be fun ALL THE TIME, or at least most of it. If you want to be happy, you’re going to have to embrace that life can be and is really, really fun when you allow it to be.

    Be HAPPY!!

    XO,

    Dana